Poor choices

In our addictions we made poor choices, not considering their effect on ourselves or others. As we become willing to make amends for those choices we need to now consider the effect of making amends to those we have harmed and ask ourselves "is this going to repair or cause further problems in this relationship?" if making amends is going cause more problems than they will resolve then they are best left as is.

In these instances we should ask for and accept God's forgiveness, forgive ourselves and move on.

Remember 'a small step on God's direction is always a positive step in our spiritual growth.

James 3:4 And a small rudder makes a huge ship turn wherever the pilot chooses to go, even though the winds are strong.